Discrimination

Discrimination is wrong, that’s what I feel. Discriminating males and females are disgusting sometimes… I can understand that sometimes parents are more conscious about the female child, but always? 

Well I have faced this… I mean my younger brother got all the freedom which I didn’t, even being the eldest. That obviously hurts, why won’t it? When you see he is going out alone whenever and wherever he wants but you can’t even go to your female friend’s house without asking for permission and that’s not all, you even have to give details of everything relating to that friend’s house, why?

Things hurt a lot but you have to stay quiet and if you don’t they will somehow make you stay quiet because as you are a girl you are born to listen to the orders of your “family” because they wish “well” for you…

The brown conservative families expect that their son will have beautiful pretty girlfriend whereas the girls of the same family will be treated as criminals if they like any boy. They will provide all the demands of their sons whereas a girl will have to request at least a couple of times to make sure they remember what she asked for. 

I’m not saying every family is like that, I’m just sharing my experience. I have seen families where girls are treated like princesses, they are loved and cared by the whole family, but I wasn’t that fortunate.

In fact, sometimes sharing your feelings or keeping your views in front of them is considered “impudent” or “rude”. I have been scolded a hell lot of times. 

Well, I would like to tell these kind parents that you are the reason for your child’s depression. You are the reason they get thoughts like suicide and crimes. Your goal of “protecting” them actually ruins them and when they don’t get the love from you they start looking for it outside and then also you only blame them!

There is no smoke without fire. First lookout for the mistakes you have done or the ignorance she received from the family, and then blame her if there is actually any mistake of her. No child is born adamant or rude, environment and situation makes them like this.

Parents are responsible for the child’s 80% behavior! As you sow so shall you reap… Blame later first try to understand…

I respect all parents, this is my experience and my intention is not to disrespect anyone or hurt them 

in anyway.

writer: Sajia Tasnova
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